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Louisville, Henry County, and Carroll County, Kentucky

Grave Tending and Maintenance Services

Grave tending, headstone cleaning, floral placement, and gravesite maintenance for families who cannot be there — because the people you love deserve tended ground.

HONORING THE DEAD IS SACRED WORK

The cemetery maintains the lawn. No one tends the grave. The Gravetender fills that absence. We clean headstones, pull weeds, plant graveside gardens, place fresh flowers, and keep the plot looking loved — whether you need us once or every single month. Whatever your loved one's resting place needs, we show up and do the work.

We serve families who live out of state, families who are aging or unable to visit, and families who simply want to know the grave is kept without having to manage it themselves. Whether your loved one rests at Cave Hill Cemetery, a small parish cemetery in Henry County, or anywhere across the Louisville metro area, we come to them.

After every visit you receive timestamped photographs by email or text. You see the stone. You see the fresh flowers. You know the ground is kept.

The Gravetender

About Tiffany Dawn Smith

I started The Gravetender because I lived it myself. Moving away from family meant leaving behind the graves of people I loved with no one to tend them.

As a certified death doula, honoring the dead feels like a natural extension of the work I already do. I believe our ancestors and loved ones deserve tended ground, remembrance, and continued dignity.

I'm communicative, reliable, and I take the responsibility seriously. After every visit you'll get photos and a quick note on what was done.

Serving Louisville, Henry County, and Carroll County, Kentucky.

What We Offer

Grave Tending Services

From one-time care to ongoing monthly stewardship of your loved one's final resting place.

GRAVESITE MAINTENANCE

Weeding, edging, debris removal, grass trimming around the plot, and general tidying. The site will look tended, not abandoned.

HEADSTONE CLEANING

Safe, stone-appropriate biological cleaning to remove moss, algae, mildew, and staining from granite, marble, limestone, and bronze markers.

FLORAL PLACEMENT

Fresh or silk flowers placed with care on birthdays, anniversaries, Memorial Day, Christmas, Mother's Day, or any date that matters to you.

PHOTO DOCUMENTATION

Timestamped before-and-after photographs sent directly to you after every visit so you can see the work done and overall condition.

SUBSCRIPTION CARE PLANS

Monthly or quarterly recurring visits for ongoing upkeep. Ideal for families living out of state or those who simply want consistent, dependable care.

MULTIPLE GRAVESITE PLANS

Tending the graves of more than one family member? Discounted bundles are available for two, three, or more gravesites under a single plan.

Transparent rates

PRICING

All visits include timestamped before-and-after photo reports sent directly to you by email or text.

HeadStone Cleaning

STONE CARE SERVICES

Using D/2 Biological Solution and Orvus paste — safe on granite, marble, limestone, and bronze.

THE RESTORATION

$249

multi-visit headstone renewal

Up to 4 return visits until restoration is complete (it can take 6-12 months for biological cleaners to process)

D/2 Biological cleaner + Orvus paste treatment

Trimming & weeding of the plot each visit

Before-and-after photo report every visit

Best for heavily weathered, mossy, or neglected stones

THE CLEANSING

$109

one thorough cleaning visit

One full cleaning visit

D/2 Biological cleaner and Orvus paste treatment

Weeding and plot tidying included

Before-and-after photo report

Good for stones that need a seasonal refresh

THE UNVEILING

$69

flush or flat grave markers

Flat and flush grave markers only

Full biological cleaning treatment

Grass and debris cleared from all marker edges

Before-and-after photo report

Flowers & Gardens

FLORAL & PLANTING SERVICES

Fresh flowers, custom arrangements, and living planted gardens placed with care on the dates that matter most.

THE LIVING MEMORIAL

$129+

labor starting at $125 — plants & materials additional

Soil bed preparation and conditioning

Seasonal flowers or plants chosen for the site and climate

Fertilizer, water, and mulch bed included in materials

Hardy, low-maintenance varieties selected by default

Ongoing maintenance plans available separately

Itemized materials estimate provided before any purchase

Photo documentation of the completed garden

THE REMEMBRANCE

$79

placement labor — flowers & materials additional

Scheduled around birthdays, anniversaries, or holidays

Full plot tidy, debris removal, and edging

Floral placement available — flowers billed separately at cost

Photo report sent on or near the chosen date

THE OFFERING

$59

placement labor — flowers & materials additional

Fresh cut flowers or faux arrangements available

Seasonal accents, decorative picks, and ribbon dressing

Arranged for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, or any date

Flowers and materials billed at cost — you approve before purchase

Photo confirmation sent after every placement

Note: some cemeteries prohibit artificial flowers — we confirm restrictions before every order

All floral and planting services include labor and placement only. Plants, soil, flowers, and all other materials are billed separately at actual cost. You will receive an itemized estimate and approve all material purchases before any order is placed.

Ongoing Care

SUBSCRIPTION PLANS

Recurring care so the grave is always kept — no scheduling, no reminders, no wondering whether it's been tended.

QUARTERLY - 4 VISITS PER YEAR

THE WATCHMAN

$159

per year - one visit per season

One visit per season — Spring, Summer, Fall, and Winter

Weeding around the headstone and plot edges

Removal of leaves, sticks, and accumulated debris

Plot edging tidied and cleared

Visual inspection of the headstone noted in your report

Timestamped photo report sent after every visit

Best suited for well-maintained plots that need consistent oversight rather than heavy work

MONTHLY - MOST REQUESTED

THE STEWARD

$49

per month - 12 visits per year

Monthly maintenance visit year-round

Weeding, edging, and debris removal

Photo report after every visit

Floral placement on 2 dates per year (flowers are an additional charge at market cost)

One full headstone cleaning annually

PREMIUM MONTHLY - FULL SERVICE

THE DEVOTED

$79

per month - priority service

Monthly visit year-round

Weeding, edging, and debris removal

Two headstone cleanings annually

Floral placement on 4 dates of your choosing (flowers are an additional charge at market cost)

Priority scheduling around holidays

Photo report after every visit

MULTIPLE GRAVESITES

Tending the graves of a spouse, parents, siblings, or other family members?
We offer bundle discounts so every grave receives the same devoted care.

2 GRAVESITES 10% OFF TOTAL PLAN

3 GRAVESITES 15% OFF TOTAL PLAN

4+ GRAVESITES CONTACT FOR CUSTOM QUOTE

All pricing subject to travel distance. Cemeteries outside Jefferson and Henry Counties may incur a small mileage fee. Flowers are priced at market cost. Some cemeteries prohibit artificial flowers — we confirm restrictions before every floral order.

How it works

I - REACH OUT

Fill out the contact form below or send an email. Tell us where your loved one is buried, what you're hoping for, and how often you'd like us to visit.

2 - FIRST VISIT

We visit the gravesite, assess the stone and plot condition, and carry out the initial tending. You receive a full photo report showing the before and after.

III - ONGOING CARE

For subscription clients, we return on schedule. You receive photos after every visit. Payment is handled simply online via credit or debit card.

IV - YOU STAY CLOSE

Distance doesn't have to mean disconnection. Each photo report is a quiet confirmation: they are remembered. The ground is kept. Someone was there.

Frequently Asked Questions

Request Care

Tell us about your loved one's resting place and what kind of care you're looking for. We'll follow up within one to two business days.

EMAIL: tiffany@tendingthegrave.com

Primary service areas: Cave Hill Cemetery · Eastern Cemetery · Calvary Cemetery · Evergreen Cemetery · Resthaven Memorial Park · Zachary Taylor National Cemetery · Louisville Memorial Gardens · Henry County and Carroll County rural cemeteries